Ok, so let me clarify... I said in my description of Carter that he doesn't cry much. And based on the amount of fussing I dealt with yesterday, I'm thinking I may have jinxed myself- that or as his grandma would say, he must be teething or sick ;)
He's a really happy guy overall when he's with me or Taylor, and 90% of the time he's happy to meet and be held by any stranger...but that other 10% of the time, his fiery side comes out and he is absolutely inconsolable.
Our doctor said he had early separation anxiety at around 3-4 months... Of all the things to start early!
He is totally happy with Taylor when I'm not around, but he has had some pretty intense crying fits with both our parents, leading to calls that cut our date nights short, so I am pretty shaky leaving him still (although mostly out of concern for the babysitter's sanity!). Our last couple date nights away from him have started out a little rocky, and once with tears (from me!). But it gets easier each time...he loves my parents, and we have found a super patient babysitter who he loves, and she keeps coming back, so I am trying to convince myself that he must be getting better...
However, this past Sunday we decided to try leaving him in the church nursery ... Big step for me since I hadn't done a background or reference check on the sweet older women volunteering there :)
About half way through the service, I saw one of the women scanning the pews and I instantly knew she was there for me. Sure enough, when we made eye contact, she gave me a little wave... And as I walked out of the sanctuary, smiling and already apologizing to this nice lady, I could hear the screaming...and was soon met with a shaking, choking, red faced little man. On the bright side, it was cool that the minute they handed him to me, he stopped crying, but at the same time, I don't want him to be overly attached... I don't know- hopefully with time and lots more time spent around strangers, it will resolve itself (?)! But I just had to clarify that statement about him not crying much- it was an unintentional misrepresentation ... He's an angel with me and Taylor- but babysitters beware- when this little guy gets mad, he is as stubborn as they come and does not wear himself out without a fight!
Hoping for better luck next Sunday... If they let him back in the nursery!
Monday, January 30, 2012
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Carter's first 6 months!
June 2011
| FIRST PICTURE! |
| First Family Pic |
| The very first person to hold him, Grandma Linda! |
| Meeting Grandpa Mike |
with his aunt Megan
| Car Ride Home...and ready to fight! |
| Meeting Gamer for the first time |
JULY 2011
| Funny faces |
| First Bath- exhausting! |
| Meeting grandparents |
AUGUST 2011
| Holding his own bottle for the first time |
| First Smiles! |
| First Laughs |
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| Meeting Aunt Anne and Uncle Bobby |
| First toy snuggles... this poor monkey is no longer with us, thanks to Nemo! |
| First plane ride, all the way to Seattle! |
| First Husky game |
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| Meeting great grandparents- 5 Childress men :) |
Catching up
I've started quite a few posts over the past 7 months... But I can't ever seem to finish them. I keep trying to fill in all the events that have transpired since my last post, but clearly, that is just not working! So, my hope now is to just post a couple thoughts at a time- which for a much-too-wordy writer like me, is quite a challenge!
Since my last post, we've traveled to Italy, France, England, Seattle, Louisville, Vegas,Key West, Kansas City, and L.A.; we've moved from Florida to NASHVILLE; I got pregnant and lost the baby 6 weeks later; Taylor decided to stop coaching and move into the business world; my sister found out she is pregnant with TWIN (!) boys;and most importantly, we've added a new member to our family! Finally...a two-legged little one!
Here's a quick snapshot of this new little Childress ...
Carter ...
LOVES to eat and will eat anything. I'm still nursing, but he doesn't mind formula, warm or cold, peas, carrots, bananas, squash, avocados...ANYTHING... If he sees us eating, he'll start smacking his hand against his month asking for (or really, demanding) some too, so restaurant trips are becoming quite a production for his parents...and staying home is becoming the norm!
He's huge... He's already into 18-24 mos clothes sizes. And he officially jumped off of the chart at his 6 mos appointment, measuring in at almost 20 lbs, and 29 1/4 inches! His weight is actually in the 75th percentile, which the doctor said was totally normal for a highly active (!!) boy like him... I was told by every ultrasound technician throughout my pregnancy that I had quite an active little guy in my tummy, and he has proven them all right. If he isn't rolling around or grabbing anything he can, he's kicking his legs or wiggling! And when he's "standing," he's always trying to jump up and down! I'm going to have my hands full when he can take off on his own! haha :)
He laughs at pretty much anything Taylor and I do, which is really a great ego boost for both of us...and the absolute BEST sound in the world! And he handles the constant barking and toy-stealing of his canine siblings like a pro-- although, we'll see how long that lasts ;)
He can only sit through about one short book at a time, unless it's "Five Little Monkeys"- he can hear that one over and over and over, and it never gets old!
He is anything but quiet... he takes after his dad! He really doesn't cry much unless his mom misses his signals or doesn't have a bottle on hand at every moment... BUT he is always making noise- happy sounds, frustrated sounds, word-like sounds, and his new favorite...a squeal/screech that sends the dogs running for cover- and he'll do that one over and over, laughing at himself every time... At least he has a good sense of humor, and his mom has a lot of patience! :)
I'll stop now... here I go trying to capture every little detail, and there is just no way to put Carter in writing. He is the most wonderful, exhausting, precious little bundle, and I am completely overwhelmed by how much I love him!
Sunday, February 21, 2010
Catie and Baby Brandon :)
How cute are these two little ones! :)
(Sorry I talk through the whole thing....) I just love how Catie says Doggie -"doh-doh"- and Baby! She is absolutely adorable!!!!!!! And Brandon is the sweetest, quietest little guy. Luckily I get to see them again in 2 weeks or I would be going CRAZY! :)
Sunday, February 7, 2010
Teaching Old Dogs New Tricks...
So my sister and I have both embarked on a seemingly impossible task...training our adult dogs! As we were discussing the challenges of a multi-dog household (especially with her soon-to-be multi-baby household), we decided to make some changes! She has had a trainer come to her house and is working with her 3 girls ... and Taylor and I have enrolled our little troublemaker (NEMO!) in a beginner "puppy" class for adult dogs. It is a really amusing experience, to be honest, with a group of 6 adult dogs who have no clue how to do anything remotely resembling good manners...amusing, but exhausting!
Taylor and I were spoiled by our first little one, Gamer, who was the star of her puppy class, learning almost too quickly, to the point that we didn't even feel a need to finish the class! Maggie and Pumpkin have kind of followed in Gamer's footsteps, and sweet old Tubbie had a free pass at his age! Nemo, on the other hand is a Marley (from the movie)... he knocks things over, chews things up, stirs the other dogs up into barking frenzies, etc... But he has the sweetest, most innocent personality that makes it impossible not to love him! We've just come to the realization that he isn't the brightest dog in the world, and that's ok :) He has very little recall ability, and even the dog trainer commented on is inability to catch on to tricks (making his mom so proud ;)). He also has this inconvenient, yet somewhat uncontrollable habit of peeing whenever any new person acknowledges him...but with his crooked pelvis and hind leg and the way we sit with our dogs on the floor at puppy class, I am somehow always in just the perfect position to get peed on. It's awesome ;) haha-- I'm not complaining at all...He has me and Taylor both laughing all the time... he's just goofy and always getting into trouble! I now carry a spray bottle around with me to stop him when he starts chasing Pumpkin or howling at the invisible mailman that must come on Sundays in his mind, and it's working! We're still working on the long term fixes, which is a challenge given his lack of retention :) So, here's a video... proof that even a 4 yr old boy like Nemo can learn new tricks!! I am so proud :) And yes, we know, Gamer is a genius...
Monday, October 26, 2009
Nemo Childress
How cute is Taylor--- he told me it was ok to post this... :) My hubby, the poet!
Here is my birthday present from Gamer, Maggie, and Pumpkin!
Maggie’s Gift
His eyes were much too big; his back was weird and curvy
His eyes were much too big; his back was weird and curvy
Tape worm, heart worms and mange, maybe even scurvy
We didn’t want him in the house, this crooked rescue mutt
That was it, he had to go, he was a huge pain in the butt
As time went on, we got to see, he wasn’t all that bad
When we talked about him leaving, it made us somewhat sad
Flaunting that husky jersey, we knew it was a sign
Pumpkin was the first to say it; the rest all fell in line
We got together, talked it out, and put it to a vote
We weren’t sure how to tell you, so we put it in this note
He needs a lot of work, for one he should tamer
But he can stay; we’re all on board, yup, even Gamer
Now we have a fourth, to welcome to our group
It’s nice to have partner that’s not quite in the loop
We can worry ourselves gray, hide from storms and such
Happy Birthday Courtney, we love you very mu…oh no the light fixture is moving…
-Maggie
So, he's here to stay! Welcome to the family, Nemo! :)

Sunday, October 4, 2009
The end of a BUSY summer!
So here's what we've been up to this summer... :)
LIFE....
Ok this post is divided into Life pics and DOG Rescue pics... they obviously overlap, more than they should, but it's too confusing to post all the pics together. :)
Taylor finally mastered Chicken Teryaki (he's been trying for a while)... it is soooo good, and he serves it with sticky rice too! mmmmmm....
Taylor turned 29...and stumbled upon my secret present stash, so he ended up getting double the presents because I couldn't stand not being able to give him SOMETHING he wasn't expecting (which worked out well for him)
Gamer contributed too. Although, this is now outside of our front door, and I keep forgetting it's there! It is soooo mean-- Taylor loves it, but I just keep hoping the neighbors see the humor in it....;)
We visited Anne and Bobby in Louisville
We bonded with their puppy, Gus--and fell in love with him! He's a rescue puppy that Anne and Bobby picked up in St Louis (an absolutely adorable Pekingnese/Bichon mix)
And we learned how to interact with a cat! Taylor was so proud that she snuggled on his tummy at night. But when she hid outside our room and tried to sneak in during the night, we weren't as brave and ended up closing the door. Cats are so quiet and sneaky-- without making a sound, she could wiggle her way onto the guest bed! haha... We loooove Shadow :)
Taylor went to Milwaukee for a work trip, and his hosts took him to a Brewers game, where he dove unto the field to catch a ball!!!
He left a handprint on the field too.. very cool :)
He was gone for 5 days-- a long time for us! So I taped his homecoming....pretty obvious who our Daddy's girl is...;)
I went to Cincinnati for a friend's wedding, where we learned traditional Indian dances and got our very own henna tattoos! It was so much fun!
Megan brought my precious niece to visit again, and this time we took her in the water--which she LOVED! She has turned into the HAPPIEST baby, and she is so good at restaurants--we take her everywher with us, and she just hangs out like one of the girls! AND she's almost walking...she's already taken a couple of steps on her own, so I need to see her more before she starts running away from us--she's still so tiny and snuggly :) She loves new people and is learning to like other little people--which is a good thing, since she'll be a big sister in the spring! She is tooooo cute! I'm going to Dallas in a couple of days to see her. I can't get enough of her and miss her sooo much when she's not here!
Dog Rescue:
I started going up to a very high kill shelter in Putnam County with another rescue friend of mine, and it has been a real challenge for me. I KNOW I can't save them all, but I am having trouble learning my limits. Looking into all those desperate, innocent eyes is haunting, and if I don't leave quickly, I start to hyperventilate or cry, and it all goes downhill from there. I have never broken down at the shelter, I'm proud to say...and I hope with time, I'll get stronger and be able to drive away feeling as though I made some sort of difference (even though I know in the grand scheme of things, there are so many left to save). I never forget the ones I can't take, and I say prayers for them--that they go peacefully and that they aren't scared when the people come around with the shots to put them to sleep. I keep challenging myself to be stronger, to look at all of this dog rescue stuff rationally, choosing the dogs that make logical and financial sense (the easy placements), but it's all so up in the air when we get to the shelter. I have always gone for only one dog, and have never come back with fewer than 4. And for some reason, I am so drawn to the sickly ones, the "Nemos" of the group. The only thing I look for is a wagging tail, and an inexplicable look in their eyes-- a look that says they want to live. All of the other shelters I work with only call me with their urgent ones, and I have a 100% success rate with those... I have taken every one they have called me about and placed them all. Putnam County is the only place that I leave knowing that I have literally left dogs to die because I couldn't take them with me. But again, that is my challenge. And I'm still breathing, so it hasn't killed me yet. I wish I could say I get stronger every time I go, but to be honest, every time I go, I leave with more awful images that I wish I could forget :( This last time, I left with my 4 rescues, knowing that the next day was set to be a "cleaning day" due to all the death and disease they were having...so they were euthanizing every animal left behind and bleaching the facilities. That was the longest drive home yet.
Sorry for the depressing post, but it helps to write it down. I have officially committed to Taylor that I'm taking a break from picking dogs up at these shelters for a little while (I think he's seen a few too many crying episodes and overly stressful days trying to take care of way too many dogs and obsessing over the ones I left behind), so I promised him (but more importantly ME) that I need to take a moment to breathe and focus on finding homes for the ones who are left! My rescue friends have all already decided we needed a break, but I drove up this last time all by myself, and it was the worst trip up there ever! I am so blessed to have my husband--he is so supportive of what I do, and has sat with me through euthanizing sick dogs, met with owner's surrendering their pets so I wouldn't have to do it alone, and he has welcomed Tubbs, Nemo, and countless sick (and untrained) foster dogs into our home without too much complaining ;) (I always get the obligatory head shake and "really? another one?")...but I don't know what I would have done without a hubby with a heart like his! :)
This is one of the many breaks I have talked about taking, so I am really hesitant to put it in writing... Every time I say I'm taking a break, the shelter calls me, and I give in ... I have 7 dogs in rescue here with me now (across the street in boarding), and I'm up to 49 in the past year and half, and I am overwhelmed....so I really need a break. I have 2 voicemails waiting on my phone from dog rescue people as I write this --so wish me luck. Saying no isn't one of my strong points... :)
On a much happier note, here are my summer rescues! All but 7 are with their new families :) And my goal is to place the last 7 by Thanksgiving..and then take a break over the holidays!

Zena- My friend was going to pick her up when she picked up Addie and Stephanie (in a previous post), but we went with Addie instead since she was emaciated and scheduled to be euthanized the following day. The shelter called us the next week asking if we still wanted Zena..they had accidentally left a "hold" card on her kennel that had been overlooked...so after giving her the tranquilizer shot (the first step in euthanizing a dog), they saw the card and panicked. They called us saying there was a 90% chance she would never wake up from the tranquilizer, but we told them to stop and give her the chance to wake up! With all the odds against her, she did wake up, and we headed out the next day to pick her up. She is in CT now, but she was one of my hardest girls--sooo sweet and healthy, but the strongest, most stubborn dog I have ever worked with--my legs are still scratched and bruised to prove it! I guess that's what brought her back to life though, and a girl with her will to live deserves a second chance :)
Fynn-- This was an easy guy...a 4 year old Golden mix who was totally healthy and had been at the local humane shelter. They heard about me and contacted me to help them (luckily they don't remember how annoying I was when they tried to keep me from rescuing Pumpkin ;))...so I told them I would help! Fynn was only with me for a week before he was adopted by a wonderful family near Boston.
AVA- Another rescuer headed up to Putnam while I was on one of my attempted breaks, and they called a friend of mine about a 3 month old purebred Lab puppy who had been hit by a car and left to die at the shelter... I happened to be at the vet when my friend (a vet tech) got the call. She ran out to tell me...and I mean, come on, how could I say no!? Throughout the conversation, the 3 mos old purebred Lab puppy became a possible mix to a 6 mos old, to a 1 yr old, and finally, I stopped the girl and just told her to bring me the dog! She had the exact same leg injury as Nemo, but was totally healthy besides that! I took her on as a long termer, but a family met her 2 weeks after her surgery and chose her over all the other healthy, purebred dogs they had met! She is now in a reallllly nice home with two little kids who spoil her :)
Kingston- The humane society called me to intercept an owner surrender because they didn't want to have another large black dog at the facility. I said yes, and picked up this cutie the next week! He literally cried when his mom and dad drove away and has been kind of scared with new people, but he's coming around every day...and he is so precious! He's a purebred Lab that has lots of MARLEY traits, but he's as sweet as they come, so we'll find him a home. I love this guy--although, I can't wait to let someone else take over my training sessions with him;)
Too soon after my last trip up to Putnam County, the shelter manager called me BEGGING me to rescue this gorgeous yellow lab there. So, I drove up with another one of my rescue buddies, to get ONLY 1 dog this time. We named her Catie (after a certain special girl in my life!), and I was SO happy they had called me to get her! She was a dream---perfectly trained, no bad habits, very friendly...and she was adopted within a few weeks, and is now the princess of her new home in Pennsylvania! :) - no clue why this is underlined, and it won't let me undo it, so I'm just leaving it :)
These 3 puppies are Knox, Paris, and Nikki (can you tell I'm running out of names and have been reading gossip mags? haha)... I asked the shelter worker about them as I was leaving with Catie (half-heartedly, knowing that most of the other rescues take all the puppies before anything else...). He told me they were scheduled for euthanasia the next day because all the puppy rescues decided they were too old to take--they were about 14-16 weeks instead of the usual 8-12 weeks... I asked him if any other rescues were coming after I left, he said no, so we loaded 3 more puppies into our crates! They were just babies! How could I leave them there to die! They were all super scared at first, and I had to carry each one (one by one) out of the shelter kennel, into the bath at the vet, out for a walk, etc., etc...They were a lot of work! But they came out of their shells after a couple of days, and became normal puppies! The 2 hound girls were sick, and needed time at the vet to recover, but I wanted to get Knox out of the tiny kennel at the vet (on a whim one day), so as I was walking out with him, a nice woman stopped to pet him, and one thing led to another, and suddenly I was meeting up with her best friend that night, and Knox was in his new home the next day! (This never happens to me and was the easiest rescue yet!) Paris is in her new home in CT now, and Nikki is in a wonderful foster home up in CT, waiting on her forever home in style ;). These guys were the CUTEST rescues yet! I never get to take puppies--everyone takes them, so I focus on the older guys...so this was really fun for me :)
After getting Marley, I was heading in to find my friend who was picking up a litter of kittens, I saw this girl out of the corner of my eye! The shelter was calling her Precious, for reasons we soon discovered....she was toooo sweet for words and I couldn't leave her there. I grabbed her and put her in an empty kennel that my friend had conveniently brought with her ;)....and we headed home. Precious is still looking for a home, and she is the sweetest dog ever!
AND that's it. And hopefully my next post will focus more on life than on dogs!!! :)
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