Monday, October 7, 2013

Mommy of Two!

The first couple weeks took some getting used to..but with Dad home and lots of help from grandparents, we had a relatively easy transition into becoming a family of four. To say Carter loves his baby sister is a HUGE understatement. He is borderline obsessed...and thankfully, very gentle! He loves to give kisses and hugs, helps me change every diaper (unless I manage to sneak away and do it by myself!), and wants Caroline in my arms, or at least in the room with us at all times. Every one of his mornings starts with:  "Where Caroline?? Sleeping? Let's wake her up!"  And the second she cries, he says "Mama! Caroline crying!! Let's go get her!" He then goes through a line of questions "Need to burp her... no, needs pacifier? no, needs mama... needs to eat!" He takes his role as big brother very seriously, and I am so proud of him for how well he's adjusted. There have been moments where I have  had two crying, or even screaming, little ones for completely different reasons, which was (and is!) a bit overwhelming... but overall, I am getting the hang of this mommy-of-two thing :)



















July 24th, 6:43 am

We met Miss Caroline Elise Childress on July 24th at 6:43 am measuring 8 lbs 12 oz and 21 inches long. Not as big as her brother...but not as late as he was either! Our sweet girl made a COMPLETELY different entrance into this world than her brother (who was 2 weeks late and took almost 30 hours to arrive!). I had started having weekly ultrasounds in the final month of pregnancy due to excess amniotic fluid and the possibility (or certainty) of having another big baby that needed to be monitored.  At my July 23rd appointment, my midwife began talking to me about scheduling an induction for early August, as I was showing absolutely no signs of going into labor on or before my due date of July 26th.  So we went about our day as though we had another week or two as a family of three! Taylor's parents had come into town the Saturday before to help with Carter and be in town for Caroline's birth, but since I had been gone most of the morning at doctor's appointments, I gave them the afternoon off and took my little buddy out on what would end up being our last outing as the a twosome!
We went to Publix for a couple of things, and so he could drive the green race care shopping cart and get a free cookie...and then snuck over to Sweet CeCe's for ice cream (the advantage of having a preganant mom!!).  We came home and played hide and seek and tag outside....where I definitely overdid it in the late summer heat! But then that night I decided to do bath/bedtime by myself since Taylor was out running errands, and his sweet parents had been working so hard, and I'm so glad I did!
He fell asleep at around 7:30, and soon after, Caroline decided it was time to start heading this way!
Gigi, GP, Taylor, and I were sitting in our living room, watching episodes of Chopped (a cooking show we love)...and at around 9:00, I started timing what I thought were Braxton Hicks contractions on an iPhone app I had downloaded.  And I clearly was not believing they were real- as documented in my contraction log below- because I didn't call the doctor until after 11:00 pm! (Toward the end of the log, I stopped tracking all the contractions because we were running around getting ready to leave for the hospital!)


StartTimeEndTimeDuration
(mm:ss)
Freq.
(mm:ss)
Intensity
Jul 23, 2013
8:59 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:01 PM
01:3800:00-
Jul 23, 2013
9:02 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:03 PM
01:1302:34-
Jul 23, 2013
9:04 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:05 PM
01:3002:01-
Jul 23, 2013
9:06 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:07 PM
01:1802:01-
Jul 23, 2013
9:09 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:11 PM
01:4503:00-
Jul 23, 2013
9:11 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:13 PM
01:2102:21-
Jul 23, 2013
9:14 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:15 PM
01:0002:35-
Jul 23, 2013
9:15 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:17 PM
02:0501:25-
Jul 23, 2013
9:19 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:20 PM
01:0703:55-
Jul 23, 2013
9:23 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:24 PM
01:1003:40-
Jul 23, 2013
9:25 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:26 PM
01:1601:48-
Jul 23, 2013
9:28 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:30 PM
02:1902:52-
Jul 23, 2013
9:31 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:32 PM
01:1003:11-
Jul 23, 2013
9:33 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:34 PM
00:3702:19-
Jul 23, 2013
9:34 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:34 PM
00:4700:38-
Jul 23, 2013
9:35 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:36 PM
01:0701:16-
Jul 23, 2013
9:36 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:37 PM
00:4901:32-
Jul 23, 2013
9:38 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:39 PM
00:5701:55-
Jul 23, 2013
9:42 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:43 PM
00:5903:11-
Jul 23, 2013
9:44 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:45 PM
00:4502:33-
Jul 23, 2013
9:46 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:47 PM
00:4801:46-
Jul 23, 2013
9:49 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:50 PM
01:0903:01-
Jul 23, 2013
9:51 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:52 PM
00:5602:04-
Jul 23, 2013
9:53 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:55 PM
01:1202:24-
Jul 23, 2013
9:56 PM
Jul 23, 2013
9:57 PM
01:1402:16-
Jul 23, 2013
9:58 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:00 PM
01:5702:07-
Jul 23, 2013
10:01 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:02 PM
01:1802:49-
Jul 23, 2013
10:03 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:04 PM
00:5602:09-
Jul 23, 2013
10:04 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:05 PM
01:0501:29-
Jul 23, 2013
10:07 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:08 PM
01:4502:11-
Jul 23, 2013
10:08 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:10 PM
01:1501:48-
Jul 23, 2013
10:11 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:12 PM
01:0702:29-
Jul 23, 2013
10:13 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:14 PM
01:0602:28-
Jul 23, 2013
10:16 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:17 PM
01:1502:28-
Jul 23, 2013
10:19 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:20 PM
00:5802:47-
Jul 23, 2013
10:22 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:24 PM
02:0503:06-
Jul 23, 2013
10:26 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:27 PM
01:2504:24-
Jul 23, 2013
10:30 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:31 PM
01:2903:35-
Jul 23, 2013
10:32 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:34 PM
01:4302:45-
Jul 23, 2013
10:36 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:37 PM
01:3003:20-
Jul 23, 2013
10:41 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:42 PM
01:1105:16-
Jul 23, 2013
10:44 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:45 PM
01:1703:04-
Jul 23, 2013
10:46 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:47 PM
00:5802:11-
Jul 23, 2013
10:48 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:49 PM
01:0501:46-
Jul 23, 2013
10:50 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:51 PM
00:5901:59-
Jul 23, 2013
10:52 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:53 PM
01:1201:51-
Jul 23, 2013
10:55 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:56 PM
01:3602:45-
Jul 23, 2013
10:57 PM
Jul 23, 2013
10:59 PM
01:4702:07-
Jul 23, 2013
11:00 PM
Jul 23, 2013
11:00 PM
00:0003:07-
Jul 23, 2013
11:00 PM
Jul 23, 2013
11:01 PM
00:5300:02-
Jul 23, 2013
11:05 PM
Jul 23, 2013
11:06 PM
01:0005:10-
Jul 23, 2013
11:07 PM
Jul 23, 2013
11:08 PM
00:4501:55-
Jul 23, 2013
11:09 PM
Jul 23, 2013
11:09 PM
00:1901:51-
Jul 23, 2013
11:11 PM
Jul 23, 2013
11:12 PM
01:1402:09-
Jul 23, 2013
11:17 PM
Jul 23, 2013
11:18 PM
01:0006:08-
Jul 23, 2013
11:22 PM
Jul 23, 2013
11:22 PM
00:0005:04-
Jul 23, 2013
11:24 PM
Jul 23, 2013
11:25 PM
00:5801:15-
Jul 23, 2013
11:25 PM
Jul 23, 2013
11:26 PM
00:4501:51-
Jul 23, 2013
11:42 PM
Jul 23, 2013
11:43 PM
01:0016:31-
Jul 23, 2013
11:47 PM
Jul 23, 2013
11:48 PM
01:0004:55-
Jul 23, 2013
11:52 PM
Jul 23, 2013
11:53 PM
01:0105:02-
Jul 23, 2013
11:53 PM
Jul 23, 2013
11:55 PM
01:2601:32-
Jul 23, 2013
11:55 PM
Jul 23, 2013
11:56 PM
00:5301:39-
Jul 24, 2013
12:15 AM
Jul 24, 2013
12:16 AM
00:5419:31-
Jul 24, 2013
12:16 AM
Jul 24, 2013
12:17 AM
00:3901:43-
Jul 24, 2013
12:18 AM
Jul 24, 2013
12:18 AM
00:4401:14-
Jul 24, 2013
12:21 AM
Jul 24, 2013
12:23 AM
01:2203:33-
Jul 24, 2013
12:24 AM
Jul 24, 2013
12:24 AM
00:3902:29-
Jul 24, 2013
12:26 AM
Jul 24, 2013
12:27 AM
00:5102:06-
Jul 24, 2013
12:28 AM
Jul 24, 2013
12:28 AM
00:2401:54-
Jul 24, 2013
12:31 AM
Jul 24, 2013
12:32 AM
00:5803:07-
Jul 24, 2013
12:36 AM
Jul 24, 2013
12:37 AM
00:5405:26-
Jul 24, 2013
1:06 AM
Jul 24, 2013
1:07 AM
01:1129:40-
Jul 24, 2013
1:09 AM
Jul 24, 2013
1:10 AM
00:4103:26-

At around 10 or so, I whispered to Taylor that he probably shouldn't have another glass of wine, just in case... but I didn't want to alarm his parents, so I made him promise not to react! He got all excited...but I told him it was probably a false alarm and not to worry. As we got ready for bed, Taylor assured me that it wasn't really happening if I was able to sleep through the contractions. And I told him I was exhausted and would definitely sleep through what was sure to be false labor. As he started snoring at my side, I was 100% awake, and the tightening in my belly that had been noticeable but very manageable was quickly becoming quite painful. I got up, walked around the house, tried to distract myself, and finally called the doctor... who urged me to get to the hospital as soon as possible just to be safe. I woke my sweet husband up, and he hopped out of bed so excited to put our hospital plan into action. We arrived at Vanderbilt's ER at around 1:30 am, and at that point, I was doubled over in pain with each contraction, and apologizing to the nurses between each one.
When they got me all hooked up to IV and contraction monitors a bit after 2:00 am, the triage nurses started scurrying around saying that I was having intense contractions, very close together, and was already 3-4 cm dilated (which, after showing no signs of impending labor at my doctor's appointment earlier that same day, had them worried it was progressing pretty quickly).
They sent me to a room and said the anesthesiologist would be in shortly with the epidural (yay!). However, it was a busy day for babies, and there were a number of emergency C-sections going on, so 2 hours went by with my contractions 1-2 minutes apart... and I was quickly unraveling by the time they sent this sweet young doctor in to start the epidural.
Once the meds kicked in though, all was well, and Taylor, my mom, and I started chatting and getting ready for a long night ahead. The doctor came in to check me, said it was almost time to push... and literally 3 pushes later, I had a crying baby girl on my chest! So absolutely surreal!
The next couple days were full of quiet snuggles and visitors, and thankfully, lots of healthy reports on our girl. And we headed home 2 days later to be met by THE most enthusiastic big brother. More on that in later posts!  Welcome to our family, sweet girl. We could not possibly love you more!!!



























Saturday, August 24, 2013

July... leading up to Caroline's arrival!


So we have a new member of our family who turned one month old today...and we are oh-so-blessed to have her in our lives!  The summer of 2013 was very kind to this heavily pregnant mama with lots of cool, rainy days and lots of helpful visitors to keep our precious, wild Carter entertained.

Carter is absolutely adorable these days. Talking in sentences, communicating his wants and needs SO well, and just becoming more and more fun every day! He has SUCH a fun, happy, goofy personality, and I feel so lucky to be his mom! He was very patient with me as I slowed down with my big belly this summer, and focused his energy on playing with his dad in the afternoons and spending his days being relatively calm and snuggly with me! On one zoo trip that was especially hot, he took my hand and asked to sit on a bench with me, where we discussed the animals we had seen. I mean, could this guy melt my heart any more!

Here's a photo recap of the first half of our July... before our world was happily turned upside down by our itty bitty angel girl! 

Fishing with Dad

Visiting Dad's office and learning to play some old school Nintendo


Meeting goats and alligators at the zoo  
A belated impromptu birthday celebration with Deacon and Evelyn


Piano playing with Ev

Swimming at Grandma and Grandpa's house

Bonding with cars and trains and legos

Super pregnant me and a medicated Taylor (who had thrown out his back the day before) at the courthouse for two of our good friends' spontaneous wedding!

Hanging out with Grandpa after a Saturday brunch

Gigi and GP flew in from Seattle to await the arrival of Carter's baby sister!

How Carter and I spent many of our afternoons in the last couple weeks of this pregnancy! My sweet snuggle bug :)